Are You My Mother? A Sermon

The texts for this sermon: Are You My Mother by P.D. Eastman and Ruth 1:1-17.

The rains stopped falling and soon food became scarce. No weekly trucks filled with fresh produce and other goods would be arriving at the local market from places with adequate rain.

Children would become dehydrated and malnourished as the drought continued. Women and men would struggle to care for themselves and family.

Not unlike twenty-first century Mexican immigrants who journey north for jobs that pay enough to feed and care for their families, food migrants were common in the ancient world.

And so during a drought in Bethlehem, it’d be common for folks to migrate to lands with rain and food.

“Are you my mother?
Are you the creating one?
Are you the God of the immigrant, the poor, the dispossessed?”

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Elimelech and Naomi left ancient Bethlehem in search of food. To be a migrant in the ancient world was to be vulnerable.

To be a traveler or resident alien was to be on the outside. And so God as perceived by ancient writers of both testaments has specific expectations.

God in the book of Leviticus tells us that,

When immigrants live in your land with you, you must not cheat them. Any immigrant who lives with you must be treated as if they were one of your citizens. You must love them as yourself, because you were immigrants in the land of Egypt; I am the Lord your God. Leviticus 19:33-34 CEB

In one storyline in the elder testament (Old Testament), Sodom and Gomorrah are destroyed because the residents fail to provide hospitality to the stranger.

Referring to Sodom, the writer of Ezekiel attribute these words to God,

This is the sin of your sister Sodom: She and her daughters were proud, had plenty to eat, and enjoyed peace and prosperity; but she didn’t help the poor and the needy. Ezekiel 16:49 CEB

The biblical witness is bursting with hundreds of passages about how to treat the poor, the widow, the traveler, and the migrant.

If migrants were treated well, if we treated outsiders well, God would not have to remind our ancient kindred — or us —about how to treat the stranger.

If outsiders were treated like ourselves, there’d be no crisis of migrants in Europe, the middle east, or even in our own country.

Who is inside and who is outside is an age-old question that God has been clear about despite our resistance.

“Are you my mother?
Are you the creating one?
Are you the God of all of us? of insider and of outsider?

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Elimelech and Naomi settled among the Moabites. Though the Moabites were not well-respected by the ancient Israelites…

and though the Moabites probably believed in multiple gods — certainly not the same god as the Israelites — Elimelech & Naomi were treated well.

Their two sons even married Moabite women. Naomi’s two daughters-in-law were Orpah and Ruth. For ten years they were part of her family.

“Are you my mother?
Are you the creating one?
Are you the God who helps us find a way to live together?

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Then Elimelech died. Then her two sons died.

Our text today implies that Naomi felt great grief and despair. She felt abandoned by God.

Who could blame her?

A few verses after the end of our reading, Naomi says:

“Don’t call me Naomi, but call me Mara,b for the Almightyc has made me very bitter. Ruth 1:20 CEB

Naomi means pleasant and Mara means bitter. Naomi describes herself as bitter following the death of her husband and her two sons.

Who could blame her?

There is more here, however, than the grief you and I would feel if we lost our spouse and our children in a short period of time.

Naomi is not only facing a loss of affection, she’s facing a loss of status. She could be facing a life on the streets without a man to provide for her.

That is how it was in the ancient world. Women were without independent means of caring for themselves.

If one of Naomi’s sons had lived, he would’ve been obligated to provide for her. If her husband had a living brother, he would have been obligated to marry her, hence providing for her financially.

“Don’t call me Naomi,a but call me Mara,b for the Almightyc has made me very bitter. Ruth 1:20 CEB

Who could blame her?

“Are you my mother?
Are you the creating one?
Are you the God who cares for the widow?

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Naomi’s Moabite daughters-in-law Orpah and Ruth are better off than she. They have families that are obligated to care for them if they return home.

Instead, the two women begin the journey with Naomi back to her homeland in Bethlehem in Judah.(Naomi has received word that the drought has ended and food is plentiful.)

Naomi tells her daughters-in-law to return to Moabite territory, to their own mothers. Naomi and those first hearing this story knew that Orpah and Ruth might yet be remarried if they return home.

Believing she had nothing to offer her daughters-in-law. Deep within the depths of depression, despair, and grief Naomi’s love for Orpah and Ruth bubbles up:

Turn back, my daughters…No, my daughters. This is more bitter for me than for you, since the Lord’s will has come out against me.”

Then they lifted up their voices and wept again. Orpah kissed her mother-in-law, but Ruth stayed with her. Ruth 1:12a, 13-14 CEB

Orpah obeyed her mother-in-law Naomi and returns home to her own mother’s house, kissing her as she leaves.

But Ruth refuses. She stays with Naomi and journeys to Bethlehem.

“Are you my mother?
Are you the creating one?
Are you the God of presence?
Is Ruth your presence with your daughter Naomi?

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As I spent time with our scripture lesson this week, couldn’t help thinking of the children’s book by P.D. Eastman, ”Are You My Mother?”

In my time as a father and as an early childhood educator, I’ve read that book hundreds of times.

As an educator I know that the book appeals to toddlers as they practice classification — an essential math and science skill.

Like the child in the video that we watched this morning, we also practice classification skills.  For example, we place all the plates together in our cabinets in one spot and all the glasses in their own spot. We separate bath towels from kitchen towels. We know that a kitten needs its cat mother to nurse and that the sparrow returns to the nest to feed its newly hatched.

But notice something beyond the sorting of species apparent  in the book. Notice that the community of animals provides a safe environment as the baby bird tries to find its mother?

The cat doesn’t eat it. The dog doesn’t chase it. The whole community allows the baby bird to learn, to figure out who its mother is for itself.

But more than that, look at what the snort does. The snort — operated by a human being — returns baby bird to the safety of its nest.

“Are you my mother?
Are you the creating one?
Are you present in our every encounter with creation?
Is your love embedded in the bird, the cat, the dog, and even the snort?

Like the animals in the children’s book and like the Moabites and the Israelites we are all embedded with the image of God.

We are all one family within the divine one who created and creates.

The immigrant and the long-time resident, the city dweller and the Condonite, brown people and pink people, gay and straight, gendered and transgendered, tall and short, bird and snort, Muslim and Buddhist, and even Moabite and Israelite are all created within the divine image of God.

That divinity within us? That divinity is love. That divinity is the one we call God and others call Elohim, Spirit, Supreme Being, Vishnu, or Allah.

“Are you my mother?
Are you the creating one?
Are you the source of all that is?”

Notice how Naomi refers to her daughters-in-law Orpah and Ruth when she pleads for them to return to their biological families and take care of themselves:

Turn back, my daughters…No, my daughters. Ruth 1:12a, 13a CEB

To the immigrant Naomi, Ruth and Orpah are daughters. Likewise to Ruth, the immigrant Naomi is beloved. Listen again to what she says to Naomi at the end or our reading today:

“Don’t urge me to abandon you, to turn back from following after you. Wherever you go, I will go; and wherever you stay, I will stay.

Your people will be my people, and your God will be my God. 17 Wherever you die, I will die, and there I will be buried.” Ruth 1:16-17a CEB

The immigration status, the question of who is inside and who is outside is irrelevant to Ruth, to Naomi, and to God.

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Though many of us in this room wish that our families were closer to us or that we could spend more time together, we mustn’t forget the lesson of Naomi and Ruth.

Are you my mother? Naomi is Ruth’s mother, her family, not because of biology but because of love, because of the divine one who connects them.

God is our mother. God is the creating one and the source of all that is. God is the love within and between. 

God is the love that binds humanity and creation together. God is the love that binds immigrant and citizen together as one.

Amen.

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See also Are You My Mother: Call to Worship and Confession of Sin

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Posted in Ezekiel, Ezekiel 16, Ezekiel 16:49, Leviticus, Leviticus 19, Leviticus 19:33-34, Old Testament, Ruth, Ruth 1, Ruth 1:1-17, Sermon

Who Am I? Invitation to Offering

Who am I? asked Moses. Who am I to heed God’s call? Who am I? asked the midwives,  Shiphrah and Puah. Who are we? We are God’s beloved and that is reason enough.

As the offering plate comes round, place your hand over it. Commit to God that you will use all your gifts and skills — your whole being — for furthering the extravagance of the God’s unfolding realm.

Posted in 3:1-15, Exodus, Exodus 1, Exodus 1:8-2:10, Exodus 2, Exodus 2:1-10, Exodus 3:1-15, Old Testament

Beloved by “I Am”

Who are we?
We are God’s beloved.

Who calls us out of the sin and darkness,
of hatred, of fear, and of exclusion?
“I Am,” the LORD of Israel, the One God who loves all.

As God’s beloved, what does “I Am,” what does God call us to be?
The God of Abraham,
  the God of ALL peoples by whatever name used,
      calls us to love one another as we are loved.

Focus your hearts this morning on the divine breath that blows today.
Focus on the very breath of God that swept across the waters,
that took the mud and breathed life into us.
“I Am” is the breath that connects,
  the breath that gives us life,
  and the breath of love that unfolds all around us.

Embrace the “I Am.” Dance in the divine breath of God.
Praise be to God!
Praise be to the breath of life and love!
Praise be to the love that moves us to be love in the world!

Amen.

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Are You Our Mother? Call to Worship Plus

(A responsive Call to Worship & Confession of Sin)

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Through the generations,
humanity has sought the divine.

“Are you my mother?
   Are you the creating one?
       Are you the source of all that is?”

For many thousands of years,
we perceived many competing gods,
encouraging people to worship the strongest,
most effective god among many.

“Are you my mother?
   Are you the creating one?
       Are you the source of all that is?”

Wars were fought, people torn apart, and
idols worshiped in hopes of finding the divine source.

“Are you my mother?
   Are you the creating one?
       Are you the source of all that is?”

Today we perceive one God of all peoples and,
still we fight over what the One wants,
over who understands God the right way.

It is as if we still perceive many different gods.

“Are you my mother?
   Are you the creating one?
       Are you the source of all that is?”

A babe born in Bethlehem,
breathed in the divine,
and breathed out life & love.

As an adult he journeyed to the margins,
he taught the ancient faith of the Jewish people,
encouraging faithfulness in love and care for others.

“Are you my mother?
   Are you the creating one?
       Are you the source of all that is?”

His love frightened the powerful,
the oppressors, and occupiers,
and so death on a cross was his fate.

“Are you my mother?
   Are you the creating one?
       Are you the source of all that is?”

But God, the one God of all peoples,
does not let death have the last word,
love does not give up on humanity in any generation.

“Are you my mother?
   Are you the creating one?
       Are you the source of all that is?”

Humanity in the twenty-first century
still argues over who God loves,
“Is there enough love to go around?” we wonder.

“Are you my mother?
   Are you the creating one?
       Are you the source of all that is?”

Let us confess in silence our sin of loving too little,
of allowing our kindred to suffer injustice,
whether at our hands or the hands of others.

[time of silent confession]

Breathe in, breathe out.
Do you not perceive our father-mother,
the creating one,
the source of all that is?

“Are you my mother?
   Are you the creating one?
       Are you the source of all that is?”

In this hour,
let us worship the God of all creation.
Breathe in the divine,
when you leave take a humble heart,
breathing out the love & justice of God.

God is our mother,
    God is the creating one,
       the source of all that is!

Praise be to God! Amen.

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See also Are You My Mother: A Sermon

Posted in Call to Worship, Confession of Sin & Assurance, Old Testament, Ruth, Ruth 1, Ruth 1:1-17

Come Alive!

Come alive my friends!
Worship the One God,
baptize your hearts & souls anew.
We pause here as a community,
   as a human family ready to praise
      the worthy One, the God of love & grace.

Come alive my friends!
Let your soul listen & speak in this place & hour.
Be with one another and God,
may this hour be a balm for your whole being.
We are here to be in relationship
   with the human and the divine,
      with the earth and the mystery.
We gather to re-hear the Good News.

Come alive my friends!
Hear the Good News:
All people are part of God’s extravagant embrace,
   each child, each elder, each middler is God’s own.
Welcome one another as you would be welcomed!

Come alive my friends!
Share the Good News with one another,
You are God’s beloved
As are you!

[Passing of the Peace using the greeting and response:

Greet: You are God’s beloved.

Respond: As are you.]

Come alive my friends!
You are God’s beloved!
As are you!

Come alive my friends!
Live into the Good News,
become the people of earth and divinity,
for you are the handiwork of God.
We respond to the God of love & grace,
    as the people of loving action, justice, & witness.
Our job is to be loving grace-givers.
Our calling is to be Good News in our aching,
confused, yearning world.

Come alive my friends!
We have a great future before us.
God does not forget those whom God created.
God does not stop loving each and every human being,
God does not stop using the church or the individual
to further love, justice, & peace.
Our God is continually creating & speaking,
   our best days as church are ahead of us.
Our communal and individual task is to BE the church
   not save the church.

Come alive my friends!
The past is the past.
The future is the future.
The present is today.

Come alive my friends!
Become the Good News of hope and resurrection.
We are people of divine love!
We are people of divine hope!
We are people of divine grace!
We are people of resurrection!
We are livers of the Good News!

Come alive my friends!
We come alive!

Posted in Call to Worship, Passing of the Peace

Imagine the Laughter of Sarah

Imagine! Imagine a world in tune with the extravagant love of God!
Imagine, we sigh. Could it ever be?

Imagine! Imagine a world filled with the absurdity of grace.
Imagine, we sigh. Could it ever be?

Imagine! Imagine a world filled with the surprising laughter of a 99-year-old woman giving birth!
Imagine, we sigh. Could it ever be?

Imagine! Imagine a world filled with trust and hope placed in the Divine!
Imagine, we exclaim! Nothing is too hard for God!

As we have through the generations, let us worship.
Praise to the God of Sarah’s laughter! Amen.

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Among the Trees

Among the trees, that is where you
will find humanity.
God created the trees tall & short.

Among the trees and beside the animals, that is where you will find humanity.
God created each animal & bird.

From the dirt, the soil in which the flower and the weed grows, humanity was formed.
God created humanity from the dirt infused with God’s own breath.

Among the tall trees, the fruit bearing trees, and the tree of good & evil, that is where you will find humanity.
God and humanity dwelt together among the trees, birds and livestock.

Come! Let us worship!
We come to worship the very One whose breath creates and sustains us! Amen.

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Praise

Praise to the creator God!
Praise to God who created,
   our earth, our hearts, &
       our souls in the divine image.

Praise to the creating God!
Praise to God who creates
     a world of love, grace, & hope
         using our hearts and hands.

Praise to the relating God!
Praise to God who lives in relationship between Parent, Child, & Spirit.

Praise to the relating God!
Praise to God who seeks us out,
   even when we turn away,
       even when we ignore,
             & hurt our earth and others.

Praise to the resurrecting God!
Praise to the God of seasons,
    the one who promises a lifetime
         of change and growth
             if we but listen and follow.

Praise to the loving God!
Praise to the God who loves us
    with a grace beyond our
         understanding.

Praise be to God!
All praises to God! Amen!       

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Gifts & Tools

Holy Presence,
    Touch us that we do your will,
           using our Spirit-given gifts,
              to live into your image.  
     Touch these gifts that they are
             tools in our hands in
                 for the furthering of
                      your realm on earth.
          Amen.

Posted in Offering, Prayer of Dedication

Essence of the One: A Statement of Faith

 

We believe in the divine spirit
    that not only created but,
        continues to create & speak
             in our time. 

We find meaning and
   hear God’s calling, luring voice
        through Jesus, our Christ. 

We understand the mystery as,
   Father, Son, & Holy Ghost…
As Creator, Redeemer, & Sustainer…
As Eternal, Incarnate, &
   Ever- present…
As Infinite, Presence, & Energy…

We understand the mystery using words
that barely describe the essence of the One. 

And, yet, deep within we know
   the love, the peace,
       and extravagant grace that is. 

We open our hearts & minds to
    God’s possibilities recognizing
        that no words are adequate. 

The Divine One calls us
   to grow & learn,
   to be & act,
   to care & love,
       and beyond.

In becoming the people
  God calls us to be,
      we pledge our whole selves.  Amen. 

Posted in Statement of Faith
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